Most women dream of the day when they will get married to their prince charming and live happily ever after. I dreamed like that too but I came to realise that dreaming is never enough. There are the steps you take towards getting what you desire that really matter. Today, I will be giving my single ladies out there some tips that will enable them to attract the right man, the right Christian man.
Let me start here by saying that to get into the right marriage, you need work, a lot of work. You go to school to study and improve on yourself, right? So you equally need to study a lot about marriage and what a man really wants from a woman. And it doesn't just end at studying. You need to aptly practice what you have studied. If you are reading this blog, then keep reading. You are in the right place.
To get the right man, you need to move on. By this I mean that you should move on from your past, from any relationship that was disappointing or any habit that has been holding you down. Let old things pass away and let everything become new. A man does not need a woman with wounds. He wants a woman that is whole and that is stable. The solution to the heartache you are feeling is not a man. Get over it. Please marriage is not an injection for emotional trauma. So be whole, think positively and Mr. Right will come your way.
To get the right man, you need to be a warm and friendly person. I am saying this from what I have witnessed. I know a handful of single ladies over 30 who do not even know how to keep a casual friendship. They complain, they nag and do not sacrifice for others. There is a friend that sticks closer than a brother. You need to be that kind of friend. Be an all-weathered friend because a great marriage is based on true friendship. No man wants an unfriendly and cold woman to be his Mrs.
To get the right man, you need to remove that garment of pride. Some women are just too proud. They look at people as though they are under their feet. There is an air that surrounds every human being. What kind of air surrounds you? Is it the air of pride or the air of humility? Remember, God resists the proud but He gives grace to the humble. Do not say, how can a "whole" me. That is why your life has "holes" one of which is the absence of a wonderful man. Humble yourself in the sight of the Lord and He will lift you up.
I have much to say to you single ladies but I'll end here for now. Watch out for, "How to Attract the Right Man Part 2".
Gwen Ntumngia says
Awww, Amazing article my dear. We ladies go around looking for a man who is "Husband Material" as we call it, but in my point of view, women should rather go out there and make themselves "Wife Material" by adding value to their lives with education, character...and they will surely attract the right men.
Precious Nkeih says
You are very correct, Gwen. Every woman has to brand herself. When a woman adds value to her life men will desire her. Not the kind of men that want to take her to the hotel oooo but those who want to take her home to Mama. Watch out for How to Attract the Right Man Part 2.
Quincy Jhones says
The woman in the picture's name?
Quincy Jhones says
Who's that woman on the picture?
Kudos Preshy as usual anxiously waiting for part II