I NEED DELIVERANCE FROM THE FEAR OF DOGS
Published May 29, 2017
Updated Jun 10, 2017
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Some months ago, I was invited to a birthday party with my girls. Their friend, who always comes over to our home to play was celebrating her 5th birthday. So off we went, to the birthday venue which was a walking distance from my home. Minutes after I entered the building, I lost my peace. Because there was a dog at the party. Bummer!
I became grossly uneasy. I could no longer engage in free-flowing conversations with other parents at the party. My heart was beating and I was so uncomfortable. It didn’t help too that the dog kept walking around and each time he/she did, I would skip, climb on the chairs and do all sorts of crazy things in the name of fear.
Fear is a prison. Fear embarrasses you and steals your peace. Fear is evil.
The owner noticed how fearful I was and decided to put her dog in a fixed spot so I could be free. The dog no wan gree. (The dog was unyielding). He/she kept pulling away from the place of grounding. So the the owner kept taking back her dog and telling he/she not to move all because of me. Finally, the dog was tied to a chair for the rest of the party.
But that’s not all that happened. When I decided it was time for the girls and I to go, the owner set her dog free almost immediately. We went outside – the dog went outside too. We started walking. The dog started walking too – in our direction. My older daughter, became so afraid and despite my numerous pleas to her : “Do not run! Do not run! Do not run!”, she started to run. Guess what? The dog started to run too. And I started to run and both of my girls were running. We were running while the dog was running at (or with) us. And we were screaming and crying too.
This created a scene, meaning the people in the surrounding houses came out of their homes to address the situation. One nice lady was comforting my second daughter while I stood somewhere in the in-between, looking like a mad woman wondering where her big sister had run too.
The owner of the dog surfaced, shouting at her pet and asking he/she to follow her back. Once the dog left, my peace returned.
In my lifetime, I have acted too many dramas because of the presence of dogs.
I once entered the house of people I didn’t know because of a dog. I was knocking and waiting for an answer so I could distribute my questionnaire, as part of my research as a university student at the time. Instead of humans to answer from inside, a dog approached me from outside. I shoved my way into the already open door to find solace. The ladies who lived in the house showed up moments later to a find a complete stranger in their living room. Thank God they didn’t call the police.
I once ran until my shoe came off my feet because of a dog. And this happened only a few months ago right infront of my house.
Some of the worse days of my life were some years ago when I was pregnant with my first daughter. I had to wake up in the wee hours of the morning and walk through the street in my neighbourhood to the main road where I would board a taxi so I could attend antenatal classes. On these days, back in Cameroon I would be intercepted by many angry dogs who were customarily left to roam around at night, before being returned to their chains/cages in the morning. Those walks to the main road consisted of me constantly stopping so a dog could pass. And sometimes trying to run away from a seemingly angry dog.
I am that girl who moves to the other side of the road once I see a dog approaching from one side.
The cynophobia is so real.
Everyday I live this fear. Because a lot of my neighbours have dogs with whom they spend a lot of outdoor time with. To them, they are pets but to me, they are terrors.
Before going out of my door, I peep through the window to see if there are any dogs around. If there are none, I go out and go about my business. But if there’s a dog outside… well. I stay inside until there is no dog in view.
It is embarrassing, to say the least. And I feel so ashamed that I am not able to demonstrate to my daughters how to be brave in the face of anything. They are aware of my fear and they and Mr N make fun of me about it all the time.
I always have a feeling that the dogs would run to me and bite. And when they bark… oh! My fear doubles. That sound of a dog barking – I dread it.
It’s not like I was one bitten by a dog which made me to live by the cliché saying, “once bitten, twice shy”. I have never been bitten by a dog but I fear them with my whole being.
My parents even kept a dog we named, Clash but I never went near him. Thankfully, he was always chained outside the house and only unchained at night. I will make food for him and push it to him, keeping my distance. And on days when my brothers forgot to chain him, I would be so mad at them. I am not not proud of this.
I have reprimanded myself several times for this. I even quote scriptures to myself and rebuke me for being scared of creatures that God made. I tell myself that as a child of God, I have dominion over everything and it is spiritually unethical to be trapped in an unfounded fear of dogs.
But brethren, after saying all these things to myself once I see a dog, I forget all the scriptures. I forget all the motivational quotes on fear. The terror that takes over me at the sight of the four-legged animal cannot be fully explained in words.
So I need deliverance from the fear of dogs. Seriously. I want to be able to touch and play with dogs as I see others do. Or at the very least, I want to be able to act normal at the sight of dogs. I can’t continue to live like this.
I once did a Google search to help me overcome this trepidation. My search terms were something like, “how to overcome the fear of dogs”. The only thing I took away from that search was the part when the article I read said something like, “to prevent the dog from biting you…” I was like, so it could bite me??? Really?
I have also tried to get acquainted with my neighbour’s dog. He let the dog sniff me and that was it. I have planned more getting-acquainted-with-dogs sessions but never got around to doing those.
What is wrong with me? Why do I fear dogs so much? I really want to be able to not fear dogs. Do you have any tips for me? How do I stay safe in the presence of dogs? Do you fear dogs too? What’s your approach when there’s a dog in your presence? I’ll love to hear from you!
Meanwhile, I am so looking forward to when Jesus comes and raptures me. Then we shall live in a world where dogs do not bite.
Thank you so much for sharing this. I had been telling myself that I will do a thorough Google research to finally rid myself of this ridiculous fear. My husband has complained about my fear of dogs so many times. The other day when we took a walk through the park together, two pitbulls were running around and that nearly made me faint because I was in so much fear. My heart started racing and I immediately froze when I saw them. Even though they were not even running towards us, I grabbed my husband’s hand so tightly that he turned to me and said: “This your ridiculous fear of dogs has to end today! You are a child of God. Is that what you will teach your children? Fear?” So, my dear, reading your story was the inspiration I needed this morning. Especially the part of you and your girls running for safety had me laughing out loud. Thank you for sharing your story and reassuring me that I am neither crazy nor alone. I still haven’t figured out how to overcome my fear though, but the right scriptures is a good starting point. I discovered that I don’t fear all dogs, only a particular type – pitbulls for example. In my opinion these have passed the category of pets but are more like dangerous killer machines 🙈. As I live in a place where I am also surrounded by dogs on a daily basis I believe that if we focus less on the fear but on how God is transforming us that the fear will fade away without us even noticing. In the past , I had habits and things about my character that I also wanted to get rid off and surrendering them to Jesus was all that it took for them to disappear. Thus, I am hopeful that we will eventually hardly notice when a dog is even running directly at us. Wish you loads of inner strength and may we overcome our fears for good one day. ✌🏽
Thanks for writing, Chii! I can’t imagine being at a park with two pitbulls running around! But I’m getting better. My friend got a puppy and I couldn’t stop visiting my friend so I had to be around the puppy. I even carried her! I’m not totally over the fear yet (I keep feeling they will bite me) but I am not where I used to be. Lol
Together, we shall overcome!
Thank you for sharing this. I had been telling myself that I will do a thorough Google research to finally rid myself of this ridiculous fear. My husband has complained about my fear of dogs so many times. The other day when we took a walk through the park together, two pitbulls were running around and that nearly made me faint because I was in so much fear. My heart started racing and I immediately froze when I saw them. Even though they were not even running towards us, I grabbed my husband’s hand so tightly that he turned to me and said: “This your ridiculous fear of dogs has to end today! You are a child of God. Is that what you will teach your children? Fear?” So, my dear, reading your story was the inspiration I needed this morning. Especially the part of you and your girls running for safety had me laughing out loud. Thank you for sharing your story and reassuring me that I am neither crazy nor alone. I still haven’t figured out how to overcome my fear though, but the right scriptures is a good starting point. I discovered that I don’t fear all dogs, only a particular type – pitbulls for example. In my opinion these have passed the category of pets but are more like dangerous killer machines 🙈. As I live in a place where I am also surrounded by dogs on a daily basis I believe that if we focus less on the fear but on how God is transforming us that the fear will fade away without us even noticing. In the past , I had habits and things about my character that I also wanted to get rid off and surrendering them to Jesus was all that it took for them to disappear. Thus, I am hopeful that we will eventually hardly notice when a dog is even running directly at us. Wish you loads of inner strength and may we overcome our fears for good one day. ✌🏽
Hi I used to be extremely afraid of dogs this same way. I would enter houses and ask were dogs inside I would wait until a dog was completely restrained and would still feel anxious sitting in someone’s house with a dog. I even went to a therapist when I was around 16 to try and overcome my fear. I really wanted to get over my fear. One day as I was walking into my boyfriends apartment I saw a small Yorkshire terrier running freely as I tried to go the opposite way I heard my boyfriend say where you going? I immeidtale y acted like I was not scared and proceeded to walk up to him as soon as I did the dog came running towards me I kept walking as it jumped on my leg and its owner called it back. At that moment he didn’t know I was scared and I thought my fear was over. Boy was I wrong that was a short lived brave moment and I was back to scared in no time. Shortly after that my boyfriend bought a small pit-bull and one day as I was walking out of my bedroom I saw this small thing I immediately jumped and he said “Oh that’s my new puppy” trying to be brave again I petted the small dog and played with it some never picking it and wearing tennis shoes as I walked through the house. Short lived again I was scared again in no time lol. However last week something changed in me as I walked up the stairs to my boyfriends townhome I was greeted by the same pit bull except this time she wasn’t so small and when she stands up she reaches my belly button and I’m 5’8. At this point I let him know I was a little scared but I walked around and sat down surprisingly leaving my feet to hang with open toe heels on. Diamond started to lick my legs and walk around me so I petted her slowly and greeted her by name she was very friendly. I was jumpy when she approached me to fast or when she appeared out of nowhere but the entire time I just focused on not being afraid and being nice. Eventually it was time to sit on the couch and surprisingly it came easy it was like the fear lifted off of me and I allowed her to lick my hand and before I know it I was sitting on the couch with her head on my lap. I was still nervous that night when we went to bed that she would jump on me while I was laying down but she didn’t instead she listened to my commands and didn’t bark not once. The next morning I took her outside and wasn’t afraid when she ran around or jumped up on my waist. I knew at that moment I wanted to never be afraid I wanted to change so I called my best friend who has an energetic shih Tzu and asked could I come over I wore boots this time just in case she got to close to my toes as I approached the door I was nervous when the door opened I was greeted by an energetic puppy and eventually even took my shoes off allowing her to lick my toes. I was determined to not be afraid anymore Friday my boyfriend bought me my puppy Friday a 8 week old Morkie. I held her and let her lick my face I felt so accomplished its been 3 days and my fear hasn’t been back I take her in and out for trips pick her up constantly lay down and allow her to jump all over me and lick my face I even took her into PetSmart for the first time Sunday to get a bath imagine how surprised I was at myself not jumping when other dogs jumped up to play with me while in there. I am so in love with my Coco and am here to tell you your fear will be defeated. I’m still working on my fear of cats though!
Tayler, your comment encouraged me in more ways than you can imagine. I attended a birthday party today and there were THREE DOGS at the venue. Plus a cat! I surprised myself. I didn’t act dramatically as the dogs came around me. I just might be able to handle being around dogs. Thanks for sharing your story and hope you enjoy spending time with your Coco!
Thanks for sharing your story and reassuring me that I am not crazy. I was laughing so hard reading your experience with dogs cos my fear of dogs is worse that i was thinking if there was something wrong with me. The drama i have acted because of dogs in my estate is so funny and embarrassing especially when am on my way to work in the early hours of the morning. Once i see a dog, I turn back immediately or start running, screaming and shouting “HELP”, especially when they bark. The phobia i have for dogs and cat is out of this world. Dog owners who leave their dogs wandering in the night till morning pisses me off so bad. I always have this feeling that once a dog bite me, I would start barking like a dog and afterwards die.
Just stumbled across this because I’m doing some research for a speech I’m giving on getting over my extreme fear of dogs. I never knew why I was so afraid but my life was ruled by my phobia. I can relate to so much of your story. I got over my fear by getting to know a neighbor’s dog – when I was almost 40! My younger daughter had the innate fear as well. We ended up getting our own dog because I didn’t want her to go through life the way I did. I hope you can get some relief. Dogs are actually very sweet when they don’t scare you!
Thank you so much for sharing this, Mara. I am so ready to get over this phobia and not let it rule my life. Thank you.