• Skip to primary navigation
  • Skip to main content
  • Skip to primary sidebar
  • Home
  • Precious Diary
  • About
    • About
    • Contact
    • Work with Me
  • MY PEN SPEAKS
    • Love n Marriage
    • Singles
    • News n Features
    • Faith
    • Parenting
    • Beauty n Style
    • Blogging
  • Recipe Index
    • Breakfast Recipes
    • African Recipes
    • Dinner Recipes
    • Dessert Recipes
    • Salad Recipes
    • Popular African Foods
    • Cameroonian Food
    • Carrribean Recipes

Precious Core logo

menu icon
go to homepage
  • Home
  • Easter
  • Videos
  • Recipe Index
  • About
    • Facebook
    • Instagram
    • Pinterest
    • YouTube
  • search icon
    Homepage link
    • Home
    • Easter
    • Videos
    • Recipe Index
    • About
    • Facebook
    • Instagram
    • Pinterest
    • YouTube
  • ×

    Home » Precious Diary

    PUBLISHED: Nov 26, 2016 · UPDATED: Dec 5, 2016 by Precious · This post may contain affiliate links · 70 Comments

    WHY I WILL NEVER BE A MODERN GIRL

    Sharing is caring!

    279 shares
    • Share279
    • Yum this
    • Email

    I have always been a social misfit. I'm not joking. I don't mean that in a I cannot relate with people kind of way. What this means is that I don't always seem to fit in whatever society I find myself in. I just don't fit. Back in my high school days, I wrote an article titled, "real social fitness" that got published in the school magazine. Maybe it was my way of exonerating myself from the "social misfit" cloud that hung over me.

    When all my friends were dating and sharing gifts with their boyfriends, I was busy writing poems for them. Who does that? The one time I tried to fit in by partying in my first year at the university, it was so weird. I could feel my salamanda shoes and skimpy skirt begging me to stop. That same year, I met Jesus or rather, Jesus met me. That changed my life completely and my inability to conform intensified. From being the girl with neither swag nor stylish shoes in secondary, to being the girl with no boyfriend in high school, I became an official "church girl"

    These days, I no longer meet people in school but on social media. I have discovered that I still do not fit! I have accepted my fate. I will never be a modern "geh". Here is why:

    I need my man

    Mr N is not permitted to die. Who is going to pay the bills, fix things around the house or service the cars? I hardly know how those things happen. I am not some Miss Independent who can do it all on her own and needs no man. I am not one who refuses to take her husband's last name because I want to be viewed as a stong self-sufficient woman. I need my man.

    My place is in the kitchen

    While my mates are busy chanting, "a woman's place is not in the kitchen" I am spending/enjoying most of my life in the kitchen. You see why I say I don't fit? I am not team #wifenotcook. I am team #feedhusbandtillhecanttakeitanymore.

    I don't have Kim K's body

    And I'm not obsessed with having that kind of body either. My backyard is nothing to write to Ntamassen about. I do not have a killer flat tummy. My belly is something far, far away from flat. Thank God for big blouses, which I use to cover the multitude of sins. Ha.

    I am not widely travelled

    These days I see modern "gehs' on social media visiting all sorts of places: Bangladesh, Thailand, the Bahamas, Cuba, Dubai, even Ukraine. For me, it's by the special grace of God that I entered America. And even in this America I almost still live like the contri geh that I am. No sipping pina coladas on the beach with a Prada purse and lamboutine shoes. Is it lamboutine or louboutine?

    I have never worn human hair

    And I don't intend to buy any human parts called hair to add to my head. The thought alone scares me. But let me tell you the truth, the prices scare me more. All that money for hair???

    I do not dress to kill

    On most days, I dress to cover the body. I hardly know what the reigning fashion outfit is. You can still find me wearing things that were en vogue in the early 2000s. In fact, a woman saw me the other day in a store and said my shirt reminded her of something she used to wear in the 90s. And I honestly thought I was being stylish. Chai, I have suffered.

    My selfies are not perfect

    My selfie game is so not-on-point. I often try to take as many as I can then I give up because for some reason, the camera in my hand cannot produce the picture in my heart. Why?

    So for the reasons above, I will never be a modern girl. Do you identify with any of the things I listed? Are you a modern "geh" or modern "boi"?pre-signature-pro

    YOU MIGHT ALSO LIKE

    • AND THEY LIVED HAPPILY EVER AFTERAND THEY LIVED HAPPILY EVER AFTER
    • If I Can Do this then You Can Do Anything!If I Can Do this then You Can Do Anything!
    • Vitumbua - East African Coconut Rice PancakesVitumbua - East African Coconut Rice Pancakes
    • HOW TO MAKE WATER FUFU FROM SCRATCH - CASSAVA FUFUHOW TO MAKE WATER FUFU FROM SCRATCH - CASSAVA FUFU

    More Precious Diary

    • Square image of kids at Austin Library
      Our Family Trip To Austin Texas
    • Black family picture
      Family Vacation At Lake Havasu, Arizona
    • Family photo in Nashville
      Our Family Trip To Nashville Tennessee
    • New Baby Announcement
      Meet My New Baby

    Sharing is caring!

    279 shares
    • Share279
    • Yum this
    • Email

    About Precious

    Welcome to my core! I am Precious Nkeih, the recipe developer and writer right here on my blog, Precious Core. My goal is to show you insanely delicious recipes you can replicate in your kitchen. And I love to tell stories too. Hope you find recipes here that will make cooking easier for you! Check me out on YouTube at YouTube.com/PreciousKitchen.

    Reader Interactions

    Comments

    1. Kewrites says

      November 26, 2016 at 3:08 am

      hahahahah oh Lawd! Precious I am laughing so hard this morning. At least you are better than one contri geh here; you know how to wear make up, so you fit some where! Ya sister doesn't know that one yet. I remember forcing myself to attend ASJUB baptism party in my level 200, don't ask me how it went cuz it was a disaster. Talking about dressing to kill ah, that what happened to all the straight simple dresses in the market? Ah till tomorrow Kewan will never fit... When other women chant some choruses..this woman is longing to spend more hours in the kitchen. I beg let me not hijack this post dear!

      Reply
      • Precious says

        November 26, 2016 at 11:43 am

        I attended that party too because they said they were going to do roll call. I was totally a fish out of water. Wasn't funny at all.

        Reply
    2. Ngumabi says

      November 26, 2016 at 4:37 am

      Hahahahahahaha! Weh no kill me with laugh ya Precious. I can't take this anymore; my stomach hurts. I'm laughing so hard and everyone around me is asking why? But they cannot understand. I almost died at the "lamboutine or louboutine" part.

      I can relate to some of these dear. I always thought I had a problem when i don't fit, but remember:
      "What makes you different, makes you beautiful"

      I had a blast reading this post!

      Thanks dear

      xoxo

      N'Graffi - Marry a man, Adopt a baby

      Reply
      • Precious says

        November 26, 2016 at 11:47 am

        Awww I love that quote! What makes you different makes you beautiful. Thank you, sis!

        Reply
    3. Fatima says

      November 26, 2016 at 7:40 am

      This is my first time commenting on this article but I am a regular visitor and I really like this blog. And this article is so me except the kitchen part cause I don't like cooking. I thought I am a weirdo but thank God am alone.

      Reply
      • Precious says

        November 26, 2016 at 11:48 am

        Yay for commenting the first time, Fatima!
        We are totally members of the association of weirdos.

        Reply
    4. Yvonne Chi says

      November 26, 2016 at 9:32 am

      Precious,you actually above standards.You are too good to fit in.You stand out.You are exquisite to behold,unarguably intelligent,glaringly talented and oh your moral values...let me not go there.All the things you described not fitting into are VANITY.The kitchen is not where you belong as a matter of compulsion but a matter of choice and purpose.Again you are ABOVE STANDARDS .I don`t need to be in the prophetic to know you are on your way to greatness.I am in awe of you little sister.

      Reply
      • Precious says

        November 26, 2016 at 11:52 am

        Amen!
        I need to print this and put on my wall.
        Thank you so much big sis! And that thing you said about the kitchen- so true!

        Reply
    5. Lapiro mbanga says

      November 26, 2016 at 9:40 am

      Is it lamboutine or louboutine? My brothers wife once asked me this same question not like she can't afford she's a pharmacist but she too said the prices were out of this world lol. There are a lot of people like you we just don't know most of them.

      Reply
      • Precious says

        November 26, 2016 at 11:53 am

        Those prices are totally out of this world. Sah!

        Reply
    6. Angele says

      November 26, 2016 at 10:03 am

      Story of my life, except u know what you outline or lamboutine is. I know me Na tambourine wey we de for our performing arts class,????. I have missed this blog so much. Born writer. I hail u dear

      Reply
      • Precious says

        November 26, 2016 at 11:54 am

        Hahaha tambourine!
        Angele you haff kee me.

        Reply
    7. Bih Mande says

      November 26, 2016 at 10:03 am

      Hahahaha!!Best thing i read in ages! And for the record...i hate to read. Your pen sure speaks like your pot sizzles! I am in love with your ink and steam!!! I may not totally relate but yeah "contri geh", I love your core!??

      Reply
      • Precious says

        November 26, 2016 at 11:55 am

        Awww I feel sooo flattered! Thank you sis!!

        Reply
    8. Audrey says

      November 26, 2016 at 10:09 am

      Precious, this goes to show how original and natural you are. You don't want to be like someone else. This makes you stand out from the crowd after all most women are going for natural hair now. Most men now are days are looking for natural women not the ones with fake boobs, fake lips, fake butt, fake hair etc. good write up. Got me thinking

      Reply
      • Precious says

        November 26, 2016 at 11:56 am

        Amen and amen. Being naturally you is best. There's so much freedom when you are not trying to conform to society. Thank you!

        Reply
    9. Joy2Endure says

      November 26, 2016 at 10:29 am

      Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha! Rolling on the floor. This is so so me.
      Who get time for di follow fashion. Lamboutine or na louboutine na weti again sef? lol
      I am strongly team contri geh. That human hair sha plus the nkap na just headache for check sense.
      And then we just add sleeping chop to bread and tea fo breakfast and the list is complete. I enjoyed the piece.

      http://www.joy2endure.com

      Reply
      • Precious says

        November 26, 2016 at 11:59 am

        Lamboutine/louboutine na some kine shoe lol
        You see why we just clicked sis? #teamcontrigeh forever.

        Reply
    10. Kachee says

      November 26, 2016 at 9:16 am

      Lol!

      What is the norm anyway? and who decides. In anything we do, as long as we are authentic and happy. Social media presents a view that could be false.

      http://www.KacheeTee.com

      Reply
      • Precious says

        November 26, 2016 at 11:50 am

        I think the norm isn't officially stated but somehow it is evident on social media.

        Reply
    11. L Iyok says

      November 26, 2016 at 11:22 am

      You may not have all those attributes you enumerated, but you are an exceptional writer

      Reply
      • Precious says

        November 26, 2016 at 12:00 pm

        Awww thank you!

        Reply
    12. Bola says

      November 26, 2016 at 12:15 pm

      Precious yaff kee me with laff o! My dear trying to 'fit in' is a chore on its own that isn't worth it cos you pressurise yourself to keep up with the pace of others.
      I can so relate with most of these scenarios, I can't even draw a perfect brow, I can comb my hair till thy kingdom come, my dressing nko? As long as it fits. Who dash me banging body? I'm a typical lepa.
      But my self esteem is par, I don't see myself as inferior, same values I'm instilling into my children, the society should not dictate anything to them, they should rather influence the society positively.
      I love you Precious, you are beautiful and fulfilling God's purpose for your life. Keep doing you.
      Sorry for this epistle. I will control mysef next time.

      Reply
      • Precious says

        November 26, 2016 at 12:35 pm

        Hahahaha Bola, please don't control yourself next time. Epistles are so welcome!
        Lol at typical lepa.
        A great self esteem is so healthy. Please teach your children oo jare. No need to conform to society.
        Thanks so much, sweetie!

        Reply
    13. JJ says

      November 26, 2016 at 1:10 pm

      I have never fitted haha not just since high school but since nursery school. Wonderful combination of Jesus girl plus beauty and brains and they called me something like Jesus Nerd Freak Holy Maria Thou Art. I didn't like the gossips. When people talked style I talked JesusCor Science or the yesterday football match or some novel I was reading or some show I watched. I was so against fornication so when people were doing their boyfriend and girlfriend things I was the one who removed myself from their environment and became a loner for most of my high school years. Today I still don't fit because I became a fashionista but the old woman style because I wear jacket suit dresses that comes with a dress and jacket with a hr and shoe and bag to match which makes me look more mature than I am instead of wearing "branche". Instead of reading novels now I am a political activist for social justice in addition to still being the Jesus girl and I dance to gospel as the equivalent to others dancing makossa every morning I wake up after thanking God for another day and people think I must be crazy because no one dances to gospel music while running every morning haha. I can go on and on and I am very opinionated and refuse to let anyone belittle me whether young or old lol. So I come off really strong most times to people who easily get intimidated by people with a loud voice and strong sense of personality. Plus I have never had two vices of low self esteem or jealousy so people always wonder why I am so happy and when I tell them it is Jesus they say there she goes again that one weh Sabi claim Jesus for all thing. So I am not just a social misfit because I love people and getting to know them but I am Jesus Nerd Social Justice Scientist Fanatic among other things because I took the Holy Mary Thou Art part I was assigned and put on the Sociak Justice Activist even though I still stand strong against premarital sex. Sex is good but it is for marriage and to be enjoyed only in that realm so I don't get intimidated by standing out as a strong " opposant" to it. Plus before I forgot I love my shoes and have too much of it but I don't buy designer things because I don't believe person's name on something should be worth hundreds more when it is still made in China just like the ones I get on bargain show website for under 30 dollars and stones times even under 20 dollars which looks just as good. Ignore typos because I didn't get to edit haha. Plus I have never commented on anything B outside of Facebook in my life for a first website comment I hope I did just fine huh? I loved this post because it gave me nostalgia of my growing up to date I couldn't resist not commenting haha

      Reply
      • Precious says

        November 27, 2016 at 10:20 pm

        Lol at branche!
        I'm glad this post pulled you out of your no-commenting shell, JJ.
        Being a Jesus girl and a happening socialite according to the standards of society are two things that just don't go together.
        Thanks for sharing your story!

        Reply
    14. Stephylately says

      November 26, 2016 at 3:58 pm

      You are true to yourself and thats what makes you , YOU!x

      http://www.stephylately.com

      Reply
      • Precious says

        November 27, 2016 at 10:23 pm

        Amen. Thanks sweetie!

        Reply
    15. Fidel says

      November 26, 2016 at 5:34 pm

      Ha ha ha ha ha sweet, ah ah You should have asked me now???? I would have educated you that it is " loubounin", please pronounce it with me.."Lou...bou...nin"

      Reply
      • Precious says

        November 27, 2016 at 10:27 pm

        Hahahaha Lou-bou-nin! No 't' somewhere?

        Reply
    16. Fidel says

      November 26, 2016 at 5:40 pm

      That is why I married You, my "contri-geh"...

      Reply
      • Precious says

        November 27, 2016 at 10:33 pm

        *kisses*

        Reply
    17. Tamfu Diana says

      November 26, 2016 at 10:24 pm

      Sincerely i fit.Am still in my very early twenties but i fit totally,my friends see me as "low spirit" but i love the me i am.The kitchen..."food and nutrition madame" they call me and i so love it.I try the human hair though well after seizing it from mummy or aunty.All the rest i fit totally.Thanks aunty Pre for this.

      Reply
      • Precious says

        November 27, 2016 at 10:35 pm

        Aww Diana, high five.
        I have been a food and nutrition madame since form 1. Lol
        Glad to see that you can relate.

        Reply
    18. Zinny says

      November 27, 2016 at 2:54 am

      Haha, this post is so funny. It's a good thing to just be you and we like you that way too. You don't have to fit in to anything because that's where true happiness is. Oh and by the way, I tried your Banana cake recipe and it turned out great!! Thanks a lot.

      Reply
      • Precious says

        November 27, 2016 at 10:41 pm

        Amen. There's nothing like just being you.
        Thanks for telling me about the banana cake, Zinny!

        Reply
    19. Laeti says

      November 27, 2016 at 3:43 am

      My dear sis, no need to fit anywhere else as long as you fit in Jesus's side.
      I know what you mean, i gave my life to Jesus at the age of 12 so no partying clubing thing, married very early and enjoying it...
      I fit with Jesus so thats ok, no need for swag thing. I love it when you say "i dress to cover my body" tell me about it...
      I love your cooking skills, follow your recipes everyday...found you through my hubby fcbk's page from a friend of his who like a recipe one of his own friend like...u get it??
      May God bless us in this so called modern society not to reduce the standards to fit in heaven...

      Reply
      • Precious says

        November 27, 2016 at 10:46 pm

        Hi Laeti,
        So glad to hear from you! I got married early too so I totally get you.
        I feel so fulfilled to hear that the recipes have been a blessing to you. May we not conform to the world and not fit into Christ. Thanks for dropping a comment, dear. Hope to see more of you.

        Reply
    20. Sauniya says

      November 27, 2016 at 7:36 am

      Ha I definitely enjoyed reading this post Precious.
      I usually don't fit in either. i can totally relate to you on not dressing to kill. I'm a minimalist, I like to feel comfortable. I don't put too much importance on the latest fashion etc.
      On the kitchen, I think people try to pass on a message to oppressed women and let them know they can do whatever they want. If cooking is what a woman likes to do she can be in the kitchen as much as she want in my opinion.
      Have a great Sunday dear! 🙂
      xo
      Sauniya | Find Your Bliss ♡

      Reply
      • Precious says

        November 27, 2016 at 10:54 pm

        Awww thanks Sauniya!
        You are so right - If a woman enjoys kitchen duties, then she should stay there as much as she wants. It shouldn't be something done out of compulsion.
        Thanks for reading, dear. Have a great week ahead!

        Reply
    21. Jessica Hugo says

      November 27, 2016 at 7:10 am

      I have not even finished reading yet, I had to run down here to comment. Like seriously Precious, society is beginning to make cooking look like it's not a woman's responsibility & taking your husband's last name is a crime. Let me quickly go back and continue then come back and leve more thoughts.

      Reply
    22. Jessica Hugo says

      November 27, 2016 at 7:19 am

      We really do not have to conform to societal standards and I love that you stay true to yourself. Ok, I really laffed hard sha, ?? great post.

      https://jessicahugoinspire.com/2016/11/24/on-feminism-how-much-is-too-far/

      Reply
      • Precious says

        November 27, 2016 at 10:50 pm

        Hahaha thanks Jess!
        You all have encouraged me to be unapologetically me.

        Reply
    23. Amaka says

      November 28, 2016 at 1:31 am

      Lol! I am so late to the party. I couldn't stop laughing, and the comments? Oh my!

      One of things that draw me to you is your authenticity. I can feel it in your words. Please, don't ever be a modern geh. Lol.

      I can relate on so many levels. I've never worn human hair either. I await the day "they" will buy African hair because I'd be glad to sell mine. Lmho. Have a blessed week, ma'm.

      amakamedia.com 

      Reply
      • Precious says

        November 28, 2016 at 1:12 pm

        Hahaha at the day they will buy African hair!
        You all have endorsed my contri gehness so I won't stop.
        Have a great week too! Thank you.

        Reply
    24. Damiloves says

      November 28, 2016 at 6:17 am

      Lol! I love this, I'm also hopeless with DIY in the house, but I'm learning. Traveling is amazing though, meeting new people and tasting their food ? But above all else, being true to oneself is paramount, and you have that covered! Great post

      Reply
      • Precious says

        November 28, 2016 at 1:16 pm

        I agree, Dami. Traveling is amazing.
        Hopefully I will get to that part someday.
        Thanks for reading, dear!

        Reply
    25. Olaitan Bobade says

      November 28, 2016 at 12:01 pm

      Laughing seriously on the road. Hehe. The part where you talked about your backyard is just too hilarious. Such a fun post. Lots of love.
      http://Www.laitanbee.com

      Reply
      • Precious says

        November 28, 2016 at 1:26 pm

        Awww glad to make you laugh. Have a great week, sweetie!

        Reply
    26. Cheechee says

      November 28, 2016 at 3:45 pm

      Like you said above the norm isn't stated but it is evident.I laughed out loud when I was reading.The thing is to be authentically you and your true crowd will love you truly.

      PS:Your posts no longer update on the bloglist I have on my blog.You know why??

      http://www.CheecheeLIVE.com

      Reply
      • Precious says

        November 29, 2016 at 12:45 am

        Exactly dearie!

        Please remove my blog URL from your list then copy straight from the homepage here and add again. I think it stopped updating due to my move to WordPress.

        Reply
    27. Itunu says

      November 30, 2016 at 8:51 am

      Sisi Precious!! Are you in my head or what? I wrote and saved an article on Feminism and how we need to reboot things according to God and not the rubbish the world has been feeding us. I even mentioned the part of a woman being okay to love her husband and if possible 500% sef. Lol. It's no one's business if she wants to take her husband's name or not. As long as they love each other and are fine, they should just leave be jare. People just like wahala.

      You're so funny!Lmao @covering your stomach. Haba now. I'm sure you look alright jare. I admire you though. And I believe you're right. Though the norm hasn't been stated, there's so much going on which they keep pushing in our faces to conform to, but thank God for grace and boldness.
      Keep being you dear. xo!

      Reply
      • Precious says

        December 01, 2016 at 12:38 pm

        Exactly dear! We need to reboot things according to the word of God and not according to the standards of the world. Sometimes God's way will look foolish in the face of worldly standards. But the word of God remains true. There is no 21st century Bible. The Bible is the same - timeless.
        Looking forward to what you will post. Thank you for being a sweet encouraging voice.

        Reply
    28. Memkoh says

      December 02, 2016 at 1:46 pm

      This post was perfect! I laughed my heart out at "the camera in my hand cannot produce the picture in my heart. Why?". From this post alone, I can tell you are a very unique individual who refuses to conform to society's standards and I tend to gravitate to such people. Your point about belonging in the kitchen struck me because although I totally support the #iwontcookformyhusbandifidontenjoycooking school of thought, I also realize from your posts that cooking truly does give you joy, so trying to conform to that new societal ideal would be lying to yourself. I wish more women could make their lives a balancing act like you have.

      Reply
      • Precious says

        December 06, 2016 at 11:08 pm

        Memkoh, thanks for your kind words dear.
        Life is indeed a balancing act. I don't think I've figured it all out but I'm growing every day.
        Thank you for stopping by my blog!

        Reply
    29. njola chris says

      December 06, 2016 at 11:46 pm

      Hmmm,I do laugh tire,fashion shoes in secondary school? Ma sister ,it was one shoe per academic year,boyfriend in high school, how that one start? I was busy leading kids to Christ in the children's choir at the Baptist church.I as a big missfit in Buea cos I didn't have trending dresses.now I still spend most of my weekends in the kitchen cooking trying out new recipes mostly from your page,and seeking Gods face.I hope to one day spoil my husband with the so much good food.keep up big sis and remain who you are.

      Reply
      • Precious says

        December 22, 2016 at 4:25 pm

        Awww Chris. Thanks dear.
        One shoe per academic year - I can totally understand. You have been busy building a strong foundation for your life. Thanks for stopping by, dear and sorry for the late response.

        Reply
    30. Bubu Green says

      December 10, 2016 at 3:26 am

      Oh dear! I laughed out so hard. I missed this place. Been on a needed break. Honestly, your style is what makes you. I am so with you on cooking for hubby. Some people have taken feminism(whatever that means) to an insane level.
      http://www.bubusboulevard. com

      Reply
      • Precious says

        December 22, 2016 at 4:26 pm

        That's eh Bubu I don't even know what the f-ism means anymore. This space has missed you dear.

        Reply
    31. Hilli says

      December 22, 2016 at 9:20 am

      I enjoyed reading your post dear Precious. You are a born writer and i totally relate with the human hair thingy, can't talk myself into wearing someone else's, (probable dead, don't know why I think so) hair. Don't change a thing. You are beautiful just the way you are.

      Reply
      • Precious says

        December 22, 2016 at 4:28 pm

        Awww Hilli, so glad to have you here. Thanks for dropping a comment. That human hair thing baffles me. I won't change a thing about me.

        Reply
    32. Lyly says

      January 26, 2017 at 9:19 pm

      Wow. I have been following for a while now. I am so amazed by your honesty. I feel same too but fear to express myself.

      Reply
      • Precious says

        January 28, 2017 at 10:59 am

        Don't be scared to be who you are, Lyly. God loves you just the way you are. Hope to see more of you around here, dear.

        Reply
    33. Harriet says

      June 16, 2017 at 3:56 pm

      oh Goodness ! Precious my ribs I'm on the floor laughing like an idiot. You sure just made my day. So authentic you sure are one special lady and please just be you. This write up brought up some memories when ï tried to fit it but at one point I just gave up. concentrated on my studies, strong Church girl, my love for cooking and worked hard to make my own money. I learned to just live and love the authentic me rather than be a copy of someone else.

      Reply
      • Precious says

        June 16, 2017 at 5:31 pm

        Glad you loved it, Harriet!
        Yes to being authentic! Pretending to be someone else is just too tiring.
        Thanks for sharing, dear!

        Reply
    34. Awa says

      June 17, 2017 at 9:01 pm

      Hahahahaha u are very funny... my definition of a modern woman is that kind of girl that make things happen and has her life in order. Well i can totally relate with you as being a social misfit back in the day. So I learnt to set my rules and my standards. And according to those rules I belong to that class that "run the world" hahahahaha ..........Furthermore when I look back I think being a socially 'misfit' was actually a good thing. Because it saved me from all the high school dramas and gave me enough time to make me what I am today. So I thank God for my misfit life hahahaha

      Reply
      • Precious says

        June 18, 2017 at 12:15 pm

        Yes Awa, being socially misfit was actually a good thing! When I look back today, I'm so grateful that I didn't fit in. My inability to fit in helped me focused on the things that really mattered. So yes to not fitting in!
        Thank you for sharing, dear.

        Reply
    35. Pamela says

      June 22, 2017 at 3:21 am

      wow Precious u be die, ur way of telling it as it is ...simply amazing. You are just perfect and yes im a social misfit too in soooo many ways but i guess it will take a whole year for me to express it as u do. Keep it up girl

      Reply

    Leave a Reply Cancel reply

    Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

    Recipe Rating




    Primary Sidebar

    precious

    Hi, I'm Precious!

    I am a mama with many mouths to feed. I develop recipes and share real-life stories. Here you will find approachable, insanely delicious, family-friendly recipes.

    More about me →

    Popular Recipes

    • Close up shot of Pan Seared Tilapia
      Pan Seared Tilapia
    • Banana fritters on a platter with one opened up to show texture
      Banana Fritters
    • A mug of fresh ginger drink with some ginger and key limes on the side
      Ginger Drink
    • Egusi soup recipe
      EGUSI SOUP - NIGERIAN EGUSI SOUP
    • Chicken in White Sauce in a pot
      Chicken in White Sauce
    • Chicken drumsticks in creamy sauce in a cast iron skillet
      Chicken Drumsticks in Creamy Sauce

    [do_widget id=enews-ext-1]

    Easy Dinner Recipes

    • Square image of rosemary garlic mashed potatoes.
      Rosemary Garlic Mashed Potatoes
    • Square image of cajun salmon.
      Baked Cajun Salmon
    • Square image of baked lemon butter tilapia.
      Garlic Butter Tilapia
    • Cooked salmon in pan.
      Lemon Butter Salmon
    • Square image of Nigerian Beef Stew
      Nigerian Beef Stew
    • Square image of green beans.
      Garlic Butter Green Beans

    Easter Recipes

    • Cinnamon rolls in a pan, some of the rolls frosted with cream cheese frosting
      Cinnamon Rolls With Cream Cheese Frosting (VIDEO)
    • Square image of roasted turkey wings
      Baked Turkey Wings
    • A bowl of buttermilk mashed potatoes
      Buttermilk Mashed Potatoes
    • Pan seared lamb chops in a cast iron skillet
      Pan Seared Lamb Chops

    Footer

    ↑ back to top

    IMPORTANT LINKS

    • Home
    • About
    • Privacy Policy
    • Work with Me
    • Contact
    • Recipe Index
    • Accessibility Policy

    Life

    • Hand holding a young bell pepper in first garden
      7 Life Lessons I Have Learned From My First Garden
    • Placard with drawing of George Floyd
      7 Ways We Can Fight Racism

    STAY CONNECTED

    • Facebook
    • Instagram
    • YouTube

    COPYRIGHT © 2022 PRECIOUS CORE